The Best Resource for Parents and Teachers

Bible lightstock_333439_download_medium_verda_rubottom_I often find myself reading and underlining verses in Proverbs because I need all the wisdom I can get! I think you’ll agree that as parents and teachers we could all benefit from spending a little time each day meditating on the advice given in this amazing book. If you’re dealing with a “sticky situation”, a student who is resistant to learning, or wonder how you can get it all done, you’ll find answers here. The God who made us, is ready to help us in every situation in life, including our ministry with children. Truly, His Word is still the best resource we can have!

Here are a few nuggets I’ve underlined in my Bible (NIV) from Proverbs, chapter 15:

Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed. (15:22)

The lips of the wise spread knowledge; not so the hearts of fools. (15:7)

A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. (Proverbs 15:1)

The tongue that brings healing is a tree of life, but a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit. (15:4)

A hot-tempered man stirs up dissension, but a patient man calms a quarrel. (15:18)

A cheerful look brings joy to the heart; and good news gives health to the bones. (15:30)

He who listens to a life-giving rebuke will be at home among the wise. (15:31)

Whether you teach in a church, or a public or Christian school setting, you bring the wisdom that God has put in your heart into your classroom.  It will come out—even in unspoken ways as you lovingly teach the children, with patience, diligence, kindness, and understanding.  Even correction, will be more easily  accepted by our students when we use wisdom.

God bless you as you teach today!

Verda 

What Methods Do You Recommend When Teaching Children?

IMG_2165(Part 4 of Children’s Ministry Philosophy) While entire college courses are devoted to studying the most effective methods to use when teaching children, I’ll limit my discussion here to five suggestions:

1. First, you must know something about your students!  The teaching methods you choose will depend on their ages and development, their cultural backgrounds, and their spiritual maturity levels.  Missionaries study the culture and languages of the people they plan to reach with the gospel—and as Christian teachers, we need to do the same. Knowing the typical stages children go through will guide you in your selection of materials, and the methods you use. Additionally, you’ll want to learn about your students’ individual interests, abilities, talents, and hobbies—as well as the needs and challenges that are common to their age group.

2. Become  familiar with the “language” of your students. How do they talk and relate to each other? One way to do this is to observe the age group you’ll be teaching. Listen to them. Notice the way they communicate both verbally and non verbally. We don’t need to talk down to children, but we do need to communicate the best we can at their level of understanding. We can bring them to greater knowledge of Scripture and the Christian life by building on what they know, and taking them to the next level. The method you choose for each lesson should be a tool that communicates and helps illuminate the truths of Scripture to a child’s mind and heart. This means you will need a variety of methods in your teaching tool box!

3. Choose methods that will capture the interest of your students.  In her classic book, Motivation, Madeline Hunter discusses the variables that affect a child’s learning. One of them is a child’s interest.  The principle here is, “interest precedes learning”. Very simple, yet we can easily overlook this point. Sometimes our best plans will fail because we have lost the interest of the children. As any children’s teacher can tell you, their attention span is limited—and they will let you know when it’s used up!  Some ways to not only capture—but keep their attention are discussed in my article, “How Children Learn Best” on the free download resource page and in my book, First Steps for Effective Teaching, available on this website.

4.Let children participate in some way. Children learn more when their senses are involved and when they have opportunities to participate in the learning process.  Storytelling, teaching and worship videos, object lessons, puppets, flash cards, drama and role play, interest centers, and games are all effective teaching tools when used appropriately and can involve children. Remember though, that it’s good to plan for a balance of active learning and listening times—because both are important. Children are participating while they’re  listening—if they are thinking, and are motivated and inspired.

5. Above all, seek the Lord’s guidance when planning your lesson and teaching methods. Jesus, the Master Teacher, knows all about children and the best teaching method to use for each occasion. He knows who will be in your class that day and what methods will be most effective in speaking to a child’s heart and mind.  I encourage you to consider using a variety of methods and to expand your teaching tool box.  All of us have our favorite method, and it may be our most effective method!  God has gifted us in different ways.  But be open to stretching a little and trying something different. You may be surprised at how much you enjoy it and how the children respond!  Jesus described the growing teacher in Matthew 13:52  when he compared them to householders who brought out of their storehouses, “the fresh as well as the familiar” (The Amplified Bible). We want our students to look forward to coming each week…so let’s give them our best.  And then trust the Master to do His work in each of their hearts!

God Bless You Today!

Verda Rubottom

 

How Do You Teach Children the Basics of Discipleship?

lightstock_216002_xsmall_verda_rubottom_Part three of “What is Your Philosophy of Children’s Ministry?”  Undoubtedly, the most effective way that we teach the basics of discipleship is by our example.  Guy Doud, Teacher of the Year in 1986, wrote this short poem that is food for thought for anyone who teaches children.

Sermons We See

By Guy Doud

I’d rather see a sermon than hear one any day.

I’d rather you walk with me, than merely show the way.

The eye’s a better pupil and more willing than the ear.

Fine counsel is confusing, but examples always clear.

Child specialists tell us that children will often pattern their lives after the people they admire the most.  It’s important to be a good role model—and to introduce children to other role models they can look up to.  Children also notice who their parents admire and will tend to follow that as well. The people that we give attention to, and show high esteem for, will likely earn the attention of our children.  Despite our changing culture, parents are still the most powerful influence in a child’s life. For this reason, I encourage leaders to involve Christian parents in their children’s ministry when that is possible. Involving parents in some way sends a message to the child that their class is important.

Of course, the greatest role model we have is our Lord Jesus. And even very young children can learn from his example when we teach Bible stories at their level of understanding. Helping children understand Scripture takes effort on our part, and will often involve bringing visuals and various and sundry hands-on items to help translate the meaning to children. But it is well worth the effort when you see little eyes light up and older children show excitement as you begin to teach your lesson.

The last thing I want to mention in this post about discipleship is that we need to give our students opportunities to serve— just like Jesus did—when he was training his disciples. He asked them questions, tested them, and gave them many opportunities to practice what they were being taught. Jesus involved the disciples in serving the people.  Likewise, children need to learn to serve; to do more than sit and listen, as important as that is. They need to learn to help in small ways, and gradually move to greater responsibility as they show they are willing and capable. This will take a little planning on our part  because it seems easier to do all the work ourselves. But learning to be a disciple involves action, and we can help our students take that important step as they are learning and growing in the Word.

God bless you as you serve Him today!,

Verda Rubottom

 

Please note: For a more thorough discussion on this topic, go to the resource page on this website and read the article, Partners in Christian Education,  published in the Christian Education Counselor.  It’s available in PDF so you may download it free and use it as a resource for your staff.

Understanding: The Key to Helping Children Learn and Grow

Britlee Chrissa 8-10 backyardWhen I first started teaching, I didn’t realize how much the physical and emotional needs of children could affect their learning.  After having children of my own, this became very evident to me, I think partly because we’re generally more in tune with our own children’s physical needs, their emotional make up, and their capabilities.

After this realization, my tendency was to view the growth of other children through the lens of my knowledge and experience with my own children.  While this was helpful, it was limited.  But the more I observed children from various backgrounds, in and out of the classroom, at church, and in my college studies, the more I grew in my understanding of how they learn.

What I learned, and what good teachers know, is that it’s important to look at all aspects of a child’s development.  For example, a physically mature child who is in the ninety percentile range on the growth charts may not necessarily be as mature in other areas of their development, though we often expect them to be because of their physical appearance.

Often people have expectations of children that are either too high or too low.  This can cause unnecessary tension for the child and the teacher, or the child and the parent, and can make learning more difficult for the child.  But when we’re familiar with “whole child”—that is their physical, emotional/social, cognitive, as well as their spiritual development—we can be more effective as we teach them individually.

It’s always a challenge to meet the needs of individual children when teaching a large class or children’s church because of the varying ages and maturity levels that are represented.  Your class or children’s church will typically be a mix, and possibly a wide range of mature and less mature students. But as you get to know your students better, it will be easier and you’ll be able to take these things into consideration as you plan. Keep in mind this may require making adjustments in your curriculum to meet the needs of your students, and that is fine.  Ask yourself questions like these when you’re planning lessons and other activities for the children you are teaching now.

  • What are their age characteristics?
  • What do they know?
  • How do they think?
  • What do they feel?
  • What do they need?
  • What are their spiritual needs?

The important thing for us teachers is to keep learning and growing ourselves—and seek God for the wisdom we need for every child in our care. Proverbs 1: 5 puts it this way, Let the wise listen and add to their learning, and let the discerning get guidance.

God Bless You Today!

Verda

In my blog today, I’ve shared some thoughts and excerpts from my book, First Steps for Effective Teaching